The Middle Child
The middle child has many of the characteristics of the second child but is often plagued by feelings of parental neglect, inadequacy and inferiority. Middle children tend to crave demonstrations of affection, a sign of insecurity. They often have difficulty defining a personality for themselves in relationship to the other siblings that will give them the attention and affection they need.
It is difficult for the middle child to establish a strong power base in the family. They tend to feel they are not loved as much and can never be better than their other siblings at any thing they try. Many middle children in their "striving for superiority" do find a unique way to become "center stage" at times and develop unique talents. Often however they still do not feel as important or valued as their other siblings.
Well, terpulang pada sesiapa yang mempercayainya. Bagiku, semuanya satu suratan dan kebetulan. Terima kasih buat sahabat-sahabatku yang memahami diri ini. Hanya Allah SWT yang dapat membalas budi baik kalian. Kepada sesiapa yang tidak sudi mengenaliku, terima kasih... sepintas perkenalan kita mungkin ada hikmah disebalik perpisahan itu.
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